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Old Men

by Jerry Vanek

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1.
Baseball 04:10
BASEBALL He could hit a fastball harder than anyone could throw He could steal second base before anyone would know In the bottom of the ninth, when the pressure was on At the crack of his bat you just knew it was gone When the wood hit the leather you knew it was gone So take me out to the ballgame and let me hear that again This is where little boys learn how to be men He played center field on Uncle Tony's sandlot team (but) To make it in the majors was his lifelong dream His idols were DiMaggio, Mantle and Mays Heroes were the guys who made the big plays Heroes were the guys who could make the big plays So take me out to the ballgame and let me see that again This is where little boys learn how to be men When the scouts came around he was back on the farm Trying to make the best of his one good arm His playing time was through but he still had his dreams.... Of his days in the outfield on Uncle Tony's team Of his days in the outfield on Uncle Tony's team So take me out to the ballgame and let me see him again This is where little boys learn how to be men So take me out to the ballgame and let me see him again This is where little boys learn how to be men © 2020 by Jerry Vanek
2.
North Dakota 03:06
NORTH DAKOTA (spoken) They write a lot of songs about places.... like "Almost Heaven, West Virginia" "Waltz Across Texas" "You're The Reason God Made Oklahoma" "The Tennessee Waltz" "The Kentucky Waltz" "Moonlight In Vermont" "Stars Fell On Alabama"...but I ain't never heard a song about North Dakota Songwriters seem to pass it by somehow So I just wrote a song about North Dakota North Dakota, your song's been written now They sing about that blue moon of Kentucky They sing about that San Francisco Bay and The lakes of Minnesota, but when it comes to North Dakota No one seems to have that much to say (chorus) I ain't never been to North Dakota I don't guess I'm gonna get there soon but When I do I'll make my mark in Bismark and I'll go far in Fargo singin' this tune (chorus) North Dakota, your song's been written now So North Dakota, stand up and take a bow © 1992 by Dave Saunders
3.
THAT’S WHAT DADDIES DO I watched you win Talladega In your imaginary car I watched you land a spaceship On the moon in our backyard (but) When you found out little boys can’t fly I picked you up and held you while you cried Son, I’m here if you need me All you’ve got to do is call It won’t be long before you see me I may not be there to catch you when you fall (but) I’ll do anything in the world for you (cause) That’s what Daddies do I was there behind the backstop For every single inning There to cheer you on Even when you went down swinging (but) When Betty-Jean told you it was over You knew where you could find a shoulder Son, I’m here if you need me All you’ve got to do is call It won’t be long before you see me I may not be there to catch you when you fall (but) I’ll do anything in the world for you (cause) That’s what Daddies do Someday you’ll have a family of your own (but) Don’t you ever hesitate to call home… (chorus) © 2006 by Chris Gray / Jerry Vanek
4.
A Man's Man 03:34
A MAN'S MAN My daddy was an honest man He always did what he said he'd do You knew it when he shook your hand You could count on him to follow through That kind of thinkin' just ain't common anymore Still I'm proud to call him my old man My daddy was a man's man A God-fearing family man Living for his children and his wife He stood for all the good things That matter most in life He taught me when to kneel and when to stand Yeah my daddy...was a man's man My daddy was a workin' man From the break of dawn to the setting sun With honest dirt on his callused hands At the end of the day when the work was done That kind of livin' ain't too common anymore Still I'm proud to call him my old man He was always there to guide me and lend a helpin' hand (and) He showed me what it really takes to make a man a man (chorus) Yeah my daddy...was a man's man Yeah my daddy...was a man's man © 2004 by Jerry Vanek / Dave Saunders
5.
Alone 03:44
ALONE You think you know a lot about Man and God and war You play the games of life and love As if you knew the score but Sometimes the things you say Cut right to the bone You don't know enough to leave well enough alone Alone You go a little further Than a body ought to go You say more than you need to and You do it just for show If you carry on this way too long You'll end up on your own You don't know enough to leave well enough alone Alone One day you're gonna wake up and find You ain't even got a home You don't know enough to leave well enough alone Alone (solo) I don't care if you've been On the cover of the Rolling Stone You don't know enough to leave well enough alone Alone If somebody ends up crying, well That's just about par You'll keep right on going till You've finally gone too far We might hurt the ones we love but Not everyone we've ever known You don't know enough to leave well enough alone Alone You don't know enough to leave well enough alone Alone © 2018 by Jerry Vanek
6.
THAT AND DRINKIN' There were nights when I was kissing other women (and) I couldn’t bring myself to give a damn Spent the rent and every cent I got my hands on Gambling like the reckless fool I am It must’ve been the cheating, that made her say goodbye Well that, and drinkin' That, and drinkin' Some little thing I knew would make her happy Somehow I’d never to think to get it done I didn’t care to know what she was feeling The only thing that mattered was number one It must’ve been my careless ways that broke my woman’s heart Well that, and drinkin' That, and drinkin' It wasn’t like she needed one more reason I never said I loved her, I guess that’s why she’s gone Well that, and drinkin' That, and drinkin' I’d tell her lies and make her great big promises That somehow just never came to be I was always late and I always kept her waiting She was always right on time for me It must’ve been my lying words that made her walk away Well that, and drinkin' That, and drinkin' It wasn’t like she needed one more reason I never said I loved her, I guess that’s why she’s gone Well that, and drinkin' That, and drinkin' © 2009 by Jerry Vanek
7.
EVERY WORD HE DIDN'T SAY Daddy never told us what it was to be a man (but) There was food on the table and dirt on his hands He didn’t preach forgiveness or go on about God’s love (but) Every time I stumbled he was there to pick me up “Do as I say, not as I do” These were words my Daddy never used He talked the way he walked (and) He walked the way he talked (but) I knew it all so I walked the other way With every passing year Time has opened up my ears Now I’m starting to hear every word…he didn’t say Daddy didn’t tell us “read the Bible every night” One look at him, and you knew what faith looked like I learned about the love between a husband and a wife When Mama walked into the room, you could see it in his eyes “Do as I say, not as I do” These were words my Daddy never used (chorus) He left me some mighty big shoes to fill (but) When my days are over, I pray….someone will say… He talked the way he walked… (and) He walked the way he talked… He talked the way he walked… (and) He walked the way he talked… © 2007 by Jerry Vanek / Bill Diluigi
8.
THE LIFE I CHOOSE I get up every morning while the world is still in bed By the time you get your shoes on, we've got all the cattle fed My daddy taught me money don't grow on trees, well I work for every dollar, and I earn it honestly This is the life I choose, trying to make it pay Six days a week, ten hours a day With my own two hands, I learned to be a man A working man – and this is the life I choose I come home every evening like my daddy's daddy did At night I fall in love again with the mother of my kids When my working day is over, she meets me at the door In the yard the kids are playing - tell me, who could ask for more? This is the life I choose, trying to make it pay Six days a week, ten hours a day With my own two hands, the measure of a man A working man – this is the life I choose I start the day early, I get my hands dirty I put in my time, whether rain or shine Worship on Sunday, back at it on Monday That's the life...of a working man This is the life I choose (a working man) The life I choose... I get up every morning while the world is still in bed... © 2013 by Chris Gray / Jerry Vanek
9.
PRODIGAL DAUGHTER It was time to leave home Strike out on her own She vowed to never look back She thought she knew better Than her father did (and) Mister, that was that The last thing her daddy told her Before she got on that plane... Prodigal daughter, if you need me I'll be here waiting for you Praying that someday you will call Just like a daughter should do Prodigal daughter Her life wasn't easy (and) It kept gettin' harder It's an unforgiving world By the time the money was gone That he gave her to live on She was a bruised and battered girl (but) She finally dialed his number You can't keep a good girl down She was lost... but now... she has been found Prodigal daughter, welcome back home Your daddy's been waiting for you He's running to take you in his arms Just like a father should do Prodigal daughter © 2011 by Jerry Vanek
10.
FAMILY LEGACY Daddy wasn’t much For the milk of the Word He cursed and he swore and That’s all we ever heard Yeah, the fruit of the vine Was the drink he preferred That’s my family legacy Whenever he would come home drunk and Break my Mama’s heart His story was always the same (but) It wasn’t his fault, it was the bottle Just another case of whiskey…getting the blame Daddy drank shine From a mason jar One rainy June night He went a little too far Wrapped an old pine tree ‘Round a brand new car That’s my family legacy (chorus) When a man does wrong and He don’t own up To what he’s done Then he ain’t that tough (but) He can always say He had a little too much (yeah) That’s my family legacy Whenever he would come home drunk and Break my Mama’s heart The story was always the same (but) It wasn’t his fault, it was the bottle Just another case of whiskey…getting the blame... © 2010 by Jerry Vanek
11.
BECAUSE OF THE BRAVE I never really knew the man I was only two when he went to Nam By the time I was four, he was gone for good Mama had a couple Polaroids Of a man who was really just a boy I’ve tried hard to live the way my Daddy would He knew that freedom wasn’t free He thought of Mom and he thought of me Then he volunteered to do his part for the cause He paid the highest price of all To earn his place on that granite wall What I‘d give to be half the man he was Gratitude is overdue For the precious gift he gave Sometimes you’ve got to risk it all So there’s something left to save This is the land of the free (but) Only because of the brave You can go ahead and disagree With the government and the policy My friend, that right’s been bought and paid for you But you’re on the fighting side of me When you can’t even show the decency To honor the sacrifices that were made for you Gratitude is overdue For the precious gift they gave Sometimes you’ve got to risk it all So there’s something left to save This is the land of the free (but) Only because of the brave (repeat chorus) © 2006 by Jerry Vanek
12.
My Old Man 03:58
MY OLD MAN I miss the old man tonight and I wish he was here with me With his corny jokes and his cheap cigars He could look you in the eye and sell you a car That's not an easy thing to do No one ever knew A more charming creature on this earth than My old man He was a pilot in the big war In the U.S. Army Air Corps In a C-47 with a heavy load Of combat cargo for Burma Road and After they dropped the bomb He came home and married Mom and Not too long after that he became My old man And oh the fights that we had When my brother and me made him mad He'd get all boiled up and he'd start to shout We knew what was coming so we tuned him out Now the old man is gone and I'd give all I own To hear what he said when I wasn't listening to My old man I miss the old man tonight and I can almost see his face He was always trying to watch his weight but His heart only made it to fifty-eight and For the first time since he died Late last night I cried I was wondering when I was gonna go and do that for My old man © 1977 by Steve Goodman

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“Old Men” features a number of songs that I've written or co-written over the years about fatherhood, in addition to a couple of songs I didn't write, but wish I had.

I owe a huge debt of gratitude to my engineer and co-producer, Chris Sanders, for his tireless efforts in recording, editing and mixing these songs, and making them sound as good as possible. And of course to Sam, Luke, Austin and Michael, and all the other amazing musicians who contributed their talent as well.

Fathers are very important in the lives of their children, more so than most of us realize. Even a mediocre father is better than no father at all. If you are a father, there are times when it might seem like a thankless job. Remember that you are helping to raise up the next generation of men and women. Your role in their lives is critical and the examples you set will stay with them forever.

I hope you (and your dad!) enjoy this collection of songs.

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released April 17, 2022

Recorded and mixed by Chris Sanders
Produced by Jerry Vanek and Chris Sanders

Special thanks to John Piniero, Buddy Hyatt, Jesse Poe, Mark Thornton and Michael Vecchio

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